Dreamer

It has been a while since I sat down and revised what my dream life looks like: what I wish, how I would love to spend my days, and what is important to me.

Many things changed in the last couple of years, but most importantly, I’ve changed! I’ve won some things, but I lost people, and that opened my eyes to what is really important to me.

However,, if it is to think about my dream life (without romanticizing it and saying grandparents are alive), I would keep my mind on having the seasons!

I don’t mind having hot weather as long as it’s after June 1^st but before September 1^st. I would love rainy weather, but make it in November. Snowstorms are perfect starting with December 1^st, as long as they melt right before the 1^st of March, like in old cartoons!

My dream life is a mix of girl boss in the old money era but with a twist of the sexy elegance of a femme fatale.

Dark reds, black, and gold vibes on a natural canvas.

I would still be having my own businesses. But one in the small town I’ve grown in, to sustain the economy and to create a few jobs, but I would love to make money online. I think YouTube and Amazon are a nice option so that I can focus on myself.

I never pictured myself as a stay-at-home wife, and no matter how much the fact that I am tired now (mentally, physically, and tired of the system) makes me crave it, I know it’s not for me.

I search for human connection and validation, but maybe, just maybe, I could do this with an event planning firm and some classes that I would host.

My dream life starts, of course, around 8 AM, but with no hurry. With plenty of time for my morning routine of stretching, washing, and a long coffee, holding Ash in my lap and watching either the city or the backyard from my balcony. After the coffee, a well-deserved breakfast, and then off to work by 10.30. Some days that means sitting down at my laptop and creating content for my flourishing blog, for my Amazon KDP store, or YT channel. On other days, this means hosting a class or teaching. On some days it can even mean running errands for my businesses, planning an event, and discussing with caterers.

In the old version of this “dream life,” lunchtime was friends’ time; however, as much as I want to take it off the list, I’m going to let it. My friends have changed, but I still would love to have lunch with them, but around 2 P.m. By 3 PM the lunch is ready, and depending on the season, it can mean I go back to work on the days there is nothing to do outside, I work outside, maybe I take a book and read in the park, or I simply walk. During the summer it’s the hottest, so it’s better to work and let the fun for colorful Octobers or busy Decembers.

So, depending on things I either work, have fun, or both until 6 when it’s time for shopping or cooking or baking while warching my favorite series.

Working out is reserved for late evenings.

I’m not alone, I have someone by my side, but I don’t want to impose my dream life into his!

By 9 it’s resting time with long baths, reading time, manifesting, date nights, and so on.

In my dream life, I have my 2 dream homes; they are the same, and the cars. But I also have an animal shelter where stray animals can have a home.

I have a coffee shop in Brasov that works like a print shop too.

I have a Christmas store, online but physical too.

In Panciu, I still have the farm that produces for the chocolate factory. I own another Xerox.

I am insta famous but not enough to become a diva, yet enough to live out of it.

My life is easy, and I can enjoy the little things like trees changing colors, snow falling down, warm coffee in the morning, and the bloom of flowers.