Dreamer

Why helping makes you feel better? Just keep reading and you’ll find out why, but we’ll start with the beging of this whole post.

Some people asked me why writing, why having a blog, why “Dreamer”, why a “Thoughts” section?

I answered with some things I said in one of my previous articles “A dreamer life”, but I didn’t gave a specific example of how I can help or I helped even just a bit. (If you read that article you’ll make the connection)

Well, this isn’t what I wanted to write when I opened my laptop and this is why it’s even better.

As I said before I am a dreamer so, I love helping people as much as I can.

Last week, while I was spending time on one of my social media apps, I found an article where someone opened their heart up.

I’m not the one who usually writes comments, DM, but I really felt that article so, why not?

I shared my experinces and thoughts on topic, even though I tried to play it safe cause you know.. I don’t want to get in people’s lifes out of nowhere.

Result? Well, here is a part of what I got in return of my “intrusion” (without the parts that were too personal to the person that wrote me)

“Wow… okay. I am like really overwhelmed right now. Because I’ve thought no one ever would read my post… <>But your words really meant something to me!! Thank you for being so so nice to me and reaching out! It really brought my back into thinking…. <>… But in a good way. So thank you for that! And yes, this really motivated me. You know I still miss <>.But… maybe I will try again? Maybe reading your blog will help me! So again, I can’t thank you enough!!! I wish you the best too!”

I have to admit that this week wasn’t easy at all, I had my final college class on Thursday (almost graduating but no festivity), I had an exam on Saturday, studying and chores at home. I didn’t had time to spend socialising or writing.

When I opened that DM I was like “Ok, weird” (I don’t usually get DM’s on that site) and then I remembered that I was the one to write first after I read an article.

I started reading and it hit me, with every word I realised that I did made a change when I Dm’ed, even if it was a small one.

I realised that even if it was for a moment, I was a “positive character” in someone’s story, that I’ve done my job. I was so happy and filled with pure joy, entusiasm and gratitude like everytime someone says that they enjoyed my advice, my article, my stories, my help. It was a boost for my mood, a boost for my writing too, for going on.

I might make their or your day better, but the feeling is mutual!

This is why I started a blog, this is why I write, this is why this blog is “Dreamer”.

I dream of making world a better place even with small actions, and this week I did it!

Why helping makes you feel better? Becase it motivates you, because you make a good change and if not because of this then at least for KARMA. You’ll have a good Karma and good things will happen to you and you’ll feel better!

Do you wanna try this feeling?

Crissu