Dreamer

In the end its all about how you feel, where your mind and soul are, where you want your body to be, where your heart is. In the end, not what you have but who you have matters. Not the cars, houses, money will count, but the memories, feelings and people.

Yeah, having money, properties and being able to sustain yourself and even more, being able to do what you want when you want, matters and it’s nothing to blame.

The problem comes when youre dying inside. When you are not happy anymore, when you do spend more time with your work in your free time that with yourself, your family, friends, loved ones in general. (Remember YOUR WORK not PASSION). You might win on one side but lose on the other.

So, are you willing to take that chance? Are you willing to wake up few years from now and see that you might had some opportunities passing by? That your life could be different?

I am not saying not to work to sustain yourself or to provide yourself some facilities , I am just saying that you should check with your soul twice if it is what you want.

Working it’s not the only problem…people are too. Sometimes we are forced by different situations to stay around people with a different vibe than ours, with different principles, with different perspectives and morals. Or we are afraid to leave a person, or to get closer to another.

When we are talking about a collective we have to stay in (school, work) my personal opinion is to try to see the other person point of view , try to understand and if it not works… well limit all contact and try to be polite.

If you are afraid to leave someone, sorry to tell you but that thought crossed your mind for a reason (leaving) and probably it’s gonna be better alone than with a thought that keeps you awake in night. Yeah, you might have some thoughts like “how it would have ended up if I would have stayed?”. Well, if you tried your best, time will show you that leaving was the best decision.

And about giving a try, getting closer to someone … why not? It’s never a bad idea , yeah you might get hurt, but also you might end up happy, or with a new experience.

Personally, I always had a feeling for this. When to go, if I should work harder … . Most of the time it get me in the right spot, rest of the time… let’s say that I am glad that I have more experience for future.

The most important thing is that I don’t regret a thing cause I choose with my heart and at that point it was what I felt.

But again, this was just me… what about you?